Tips on how to be an assertive parent

An assertive parent is open to suggestions, discussions and alternative views that children can suggest. Also, s/he creatively finds solutions to meet the needs of both kids and parents. To be assertive:

•  Listen and try to understand
• Acknowledge and care for their feelings - and your own
•  Respect  your children
• Send clear messages about your expectations
• Establish clear rules
• Praise positive behavior
•  Plan ahead proactively
• Model behaviors
• Encourage responsibility
• Give children the privilege to help around the house

Assertive parents consider each child as a separate individual and allow them opportunities to grow and develop.